COME OUT OF PAIN

Do you believe in anti-depressants? Do you think these depressants can surely take you out of your pain one day? You believe the system? What does that really do? Are they suppressing the pain or relieving you by eliminating out of your body or some hormonal functions or cooling/calming you down in someway. 

I truly never found an answer to all these questions in my head and obviously I'm not a doctor,maybe they have the best possible answers to all these questions and beyond them. I'm sure many people got enough relief and many have not. We all know mostly why we suffer from pain, why we get depressed, but certainly a very few people know the way out of all these even knowing the origin. WHY? What is the reason behind not getting out,why cannot we get out even when we think we have tried hard enough for years and years can be pain of life,love,family,career,job,finance etc etc.....Then we start thinking life is hard enough and we lose interest of living,we think of committing suicide which is what finishing ourselves, getting away from pain for peace and never to face again or depend on pain killers for relief. What is this life? Are these the reasons why we are growing up? Then the people who are in pain hide themselves within their rooms and rarely want to come out and show themselves in the public and look at other people who are having fun outside partying thinking 'WOW! Wish I could' 'Wish i wasn't suffering' 'Wish I would have been as happy as them' and many more... BUT have your brain ever made you think that the people partying having fun are really happy inside really not damaged? If not then why not and if yes then why? 

They never need anti depressants do they? Certainly many of them need alcohol,drugs,sex,fun and for what? LIFE? So,the people out there who are living simple life in a decent way never needing depressants,alcohol,painkillers,drugs having less money making themselves happy with that and doing whatever they can for themselves and their families through extreme pain,don't you think they are the real happy and deserving people? 

So,anti depressants,alcohols,pain killers,smoking are really not taking your pain away but slowly and slowly they are suppressing your pain inside somewhere you will never know, underneath your true self and making a thick layer for years and years making you think you are the happiest you are normal who don't have to face anything again.They helped you and then what? YOU BECOME DEPENDENT ON ALL THESE FOR COMING YEARS OR MAYBE TILL YOU LIVE... Certainly not your fault,but the fault was at the very beginning you started with one of these or all of these. 

Sorry, I'm personally very much against all these anti depressants,pain-killers,alcohol,smoking because I have never tried but in front of my eyes I saw many who really don't get results even trying for years but somehow they make themselves think they are getting results and continue which obviously harm them mentally, emotionally ,physically. Then aren't all these acting like slow poison killing you your thinking ability making you artificially dependent and taking you away from you?

I went through a lot of painful phases in life,never took any medicine or drugs,alcohols,painkillers for my pain,but certainly i tried to commit suicide. But I can definitely say I'm much much more happier mentally and emotionally stable than before. Dancing helped me a lot BUT mostly I helped myself a lot through dancing,music,writing stories,drawing and many more creative activities. I know and all those who have helped themselves how much courage it takes to come out of all these pains without any external help. Make your WILL-POWER your own anti depressant.YES! that's what we all have inside, just have to bring that outside,try to know yourself the person who is sitting deep inside you,your beautiful self,which you think you have lost. Pull hard to take that very person outside of you. It's the HARDEST BUT NOT IMPOSSIBLE BELIEVE ME IT'S NOT IMPOSSIBLE AT ALL. We all are the gifts of mother nature, so, always know if nature can protect herself from all the miseries we human cause them then we are the children of them we must have that potentiality to help ourselves just like that. Set a definite goal make certain plans to reach your goal,if you have stopped yourself somewhere don't lose hope,get up start crawling and slowly you will know how to walk again that's why we are human,we are different.

SET GOAL- GO AHEAD-TRUST YOURSELF- TRY HARD -YOU WON'T FAIL AND DEFINITELY YOU WILL SUCCEED.